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MIDLIFE MANTRA: I Have A Voice and I Will Use It

I used to be afraid of speaking up, of speaking my mind, of making my thoughts known. I was afraid of the spotlight. I didn’t want to upset the delicate balance of, well, everything. I’d nod my head in agreement (even if I didn’t agree), smile and go about my way.

No more.

I’ve found my voice and I’m using it. No more will I shy away from letting my opinions be known. The days of shrinking to the background and censoring myself are over.

I have a voice and, dammit, I’m gonna use it.

Comments

  1. Rena says

    I’ve always been a people pleaser and I decided at the beginning of the year that I was going to change that and start standing up for myself. So far so good, I feel so much better these days.

    • Valerie Albarda says

      Rena, it’s amazing what a load it lifts off our shoulders when we own our voice and not let people trample over us. It can be slow to start and even difficult for some, but knowing that we have a choice and a voice makes it better. Thanks for kicking off the conversation!

    • Valerie Albarda says

      Once upon a time, society didn’t care what midlife women had to say. No more. When we use our voices, we strike a collective blow at the outdated thoughts that surround us as women. Thanks for joining the conversation, Beth.

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